But don’t ever tell me what’s best for me.
The truth hurts...? NAH.
But it's about time you heard it. I might be able to help you out with that. If you're stuck and discover you need to set off in a new direction, go ahead, ask away! Maybe you'll get a good laugh in before you realize just how much your life truly sucks.
just kidding silly! your life doesn't suck!
but seriously.
.hA
My personal blog:
http://illmericanblow.tumblr.com
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shit justgotreal.
Take a second and think about the one thing that promotes attraction the most. I’ll give you a hint. The answer is not physical looks, wealth, having things in common, or even the person’s personality. I know, it’s crazy right? The answer is actually proximity. Study after study finds that most people tend to become attracted to people who are physically close to them. The theory is called the mere exposure effect, and it states that we tend to become attracted to a novel stimuli if it was repeated over and over again. I am sure you once saw a very attractive person who caught your attention while passing by your car, then you never saw him/her again. Why do most people forget about that very attractive person a few days later? Simply because they never see that person again. If the stimuli wasn’t reinforced we tend to forget about it even if we liked it. It really is true. Just talking to someone a lot can do so much. You may not even see it coming. But If you spend a considerable amount of time with someone, you could be friends one day, and before you know it, you’ve completely fallen head over heals in love with each other. Maybe this has happened to you. You can’t fight it, but why would you want to? It’s a beautiful thing, really.
(via yourtrueinspiration)
Anonymous asked: you should make a sex playlist. but not like the typical r&b sex list, make it intense ;)
Anonymous asked: I'm moving away from home for the first time and am kinda afraid that I'm going to regret it because I'll miss everyone, do you think it just gets easier with time?
It most definitely does.
It’s like riding a bike with training wheels. You’re always safe when you have them on, but soon the other kids start taking theirs off, and you can’t keep up. When you decide to take yours off too, you may crash a couple times. I mean we all fell down in the beginning, but then you start riding faster and farther, in new directions, your own directions, meeting new people every stop you make. And when you’re tired of pedaling, or you may have fallen down, your mom or dad was always there waiting back in your driveway to tell you how proud the were of you for riding all by yourself, and that it was time for dinner.
You will always have home to come back to, and that home belongs to everyone you know now. When they get tired, they’ll ride back home, too.
(Listen to 93 Million Miles by Jason Mraz)
Anonymous asked: I've always been pretty shy, so it's really hard for me to break the ice with a new guy. Any ideas? Also, I love to reading your page, it kinda makes my day sometimes.
Aw shucks, danks! :D I think I’ve answered this a couple times before, feel free to look back, but I’ll give you the gist of it.
You’re maybe going to have to step out of your comfort zone. Anyone who can show, or act, that they are confident and outgoing could immediately be considered attractive. Easy into it. Ask him to go study or to coffee, something low key. Don’t be afraid to say things you normally wouldn’t. They’re probably interesting things in some way or another, which gives him something to think about. Then when you are both comfortable, start moving topics and activities a deeper/time consuming level.
Anonymous asked: Ever considered going homo? You're a good lookin' dude.
I appreciate that, but no. My heart and genitals are dedicated to the female species. Sorry broski.
Anonymous asked: how shall i tell my boyfriend that i love him?
I love you.
That’s my secret.
No poems, no pretty drawings.
No hearts, no words left unsaid.
I love you.
Anonymous asked: You were my best friend. I shared my most memorable years with you, and you got me through my most vulnerable years. Now I am living an extremely happy life. With a guy I can see myself with forever, going to school, and finding myself through it all. I could never look back without thanking you. I somewhat get a little envious about you talking about your closest friend who holds a place in your heart, because that's how I have always felt about you. And you probably dont know who I am.
Maybe I am talking about you. Are you going to stay anonymous, or let me thank you too for all you’ve done for me?
Anonymous asked: How do you feel about girls with not only tattoos but big visible ones?
If that’s who you are, represent your ink. Let the world see. I personally think girls with tattoos are sexy. Shows they can endure pain, and they’re proud of who the are and what they value.
Get inked.
Anonymous asked: The girl you've been attached to, does she know how you felt about her? Guys never really tell their true feelings but you seem like a guy who is honest and genuine. I wish everyone was like that.
The world would be a much different place, wouldn’t it?
And thanks, but let’s not talk about it. If she doesn’t know who she is, I guess I didn’t have her full attention..
Anonymous asked: This girl that "stole your heart away," what happend to her? Are you guys still friends?
we should stop talking about me, please.
Anonymous asked: I feel like we'd be compatible, but I have to ask, Would you consider being with a girl who's back in the 253?
of course, hit me up. (we don’t have to bang…….soon)
Seriously though, I want to know who you are.Anonymous asked: Who is the best girl you"ve ever been with? It could be relationship wise or sexually. However you interpret it.
That’s a tough one… My last three ex’s cheated on me, so I don’t known if they were genuine…
The best connection I’ve ever had was with a girl I guess I never “actually” dated, but we saw eye to eye, perfectly. I don’t know why it just never took off, but I’ve been so attached to this girl, she’ll always have a spot in my heart. You know you are.
Officially, one girl stood out, and she was absolutely adorable. Stole my heart away.. I always slept best when we fell asleep together. YOU definitely know who you are.
It’s been so long since I’ve had love like that. I hope you can enjoy that kind sometime soon.
Anonymous asked: You're amazing. Reading your blog seriously makes my day. You have so much wisdom. Keep it up babe. (:
Aww shucks!
